What is a rome gathering?

Our events are by invitation. We host intimate gatherings for up to 40 thoughtfully selected guests, with a considered gender balance in the room.  Our gatherings take place primarily in private residences, with occasional events at select restaurants and members’ clubs. We value curiosity, re-generosity, depth, a sense of humor, fun and connection.    OUR PROMISE: Every attendee is meticulously vetted through referrals, word of mouth, and our community. We  curate the room with care and keep the energy high. 

  • NO PHONES DURING OUR GATHERINGS. All mobile devices are stored safely upon arrival. Stay present!

  • What happens in ROME stays in ROME. We pride ourselves on discretion.

  • Dress to impress. We call it ELEVATED COCKTAIL ATTIRE

  • No +1's. Send any guest referrals to www.dear-rome.com to be vetted for future events

the rules of rome

GATHERINGS

  • NEW YORK CITY

    OCT 27th
    7:00pm - 10:00pm

    NOT JUST FOR SINGLES FYI!

    Let’s get our Halloween on. Pumpkin carving, light bites, bloody good cocktails, and playing with scary sharp tools. Co-hosted with our friends from SCHWET.

    By invitation Only

    Tribeca Location

  • MILLBROOK | NEW YORK

    TBD NOV 13th - NOV 15th

    TWO NIGHTS AND THREE DAYS OF UNHINGED PEACE AND FOLIAGE.

    RETREAT WEEKEND AT PICARDY ESTATE

    LIMITED SPACE | 14 GUESTS

    $$$

  • LOS ANGELES, CA

    NOV / DEC date TBD

    SOMETHING WITH COCKTAILS, CONVERSATION AND AN EXCEPTIONAL CHEF.

    SOULMATES NOT, NOT GUARANTEED.

    BY INVITATION 30 GUESTS MAX

    $$

  • NEW YORK CITY

    October 14th
    7:30pm - 10pm

    SEX, LOVE, AND OTHER QUESTIONABLE CHOICES (dining along with provocations & discourse on the contours of attraction and alignment)

    This unique evening is co-hosted by the author of MAN | SENSE, Rob Schuham

    Dinner by Chef Thomas Brown Clarke

    Private home / SOHO

    RSVP required. Limited space. For single friends

    $$

we’ll Keep you posted